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|  | Dealing with Strong Emotions « Thread Started on Sept 6, 2009, 10:38pm » | |
Someone has insulted you,
anger suddenly erupts,
you are feverish.
Anger is flowing
toward the person
who has insulted you.
Now you will project
this whole anger onto him.
He has not done anything.
If he has insulted you,
what has he done?
He has just pricked you,
he has helped
your anger to arise -
but the anger is yours.
If he goes to Buddha
and insults him,
he will not be able
to create any anger in him.
Or if he goes to Jesus,
Jesus will give him the other cheek.
Or if he goes to Bodhidharma,
he will roar with laughter.
So it depends.
The other is not the source,
the source is always within you.
The other is hitting the source,
but if there is no anger within you
it cannot come out.
If you hit a Buddha,
only compassion will come out
because only compassion is there.
Anger will not come out
because anger is not there.
If you throw a bucket
into a dry well,
nothing comes out.
In a water-filled well,
you throw a bucket
and water comes out,
but the water is from the well.
The bucket only helps
to bring it out.
So the one who is insulting you
is just throwing a bucket in you,
and then the bucket
will come out
filled with the anger, hate, or fire
that was within you.
You are the source, remember.
Osho
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